For example: Jim: “FML the doctor said I have cancer, aids and I’ll probably die slowly with horrible demonic pains!!”

After one second –> Mike Smith like your status. (He may even drop a LOL as a comment)

2. Those who comment only on special events.

Example: Jim: “I am getting married tomorrow!”

—-> Don Munchken: “Great man!!! I am so happy for you! PS hows your mother doing?”

—-> Jim: “She died 5 years ago…”

3. The “who the fuck are you man?” type of user.

Example: Jim: “the government is screwing us!”

—–> Harry abdul khakim: “What else new?”

—–> Jim: “Hey, who the hell are you?! I don’t even know you.”

4. Those moral assholes who mention poor people.

Example: Jim: “I am hungry and have nothing to eat on my fridge.”

——> Asshole: “And what about those african poor kids who have nothing to eat but their fingernails?”

5. The blind pervert who comment on ANY picture of ANY female on his friend list because he’s horny as an inmate after 40 years in prison.

Example: Jennifer has uploaded a new profile pic (BTW: jennifer looks like a guinea pig, has a mustache and green mucus hanging from her weird nose. She also may have only 4 teeth in her mouth.. located randomly inside there.)

—–> Pervert: “wow jennifer, you look HOT!!!! SEXY YUM YUM HUA HUA”

6. The virtual street fighter. A frustrated dude who starts conflicts on random status updates with other users and vomits all his anger on an innocent poor person.

Example: Jim: “Going to the gym”

——> Moses K: “Have fun man”

——> The virtual street fighter: “Why should he have fun?

——> Moses K: “Why not?”

——> The virtual street fighter: “Oh, so now you are being arrogant? You know what? people like you  are the reason why we look so bad as a society you piece of sh%t, why don’t you go and do something useful instead of facebooking? You aren’t working arent you? damn parasite, I so hate you right now!”

7. The mother Teresa. A female who comforts everyone, no matter what filling them with unrealistic facts.

Example: Jim: “I am so fat right now, I weight more than my car….And it’s a damn van. I’ll never get marry.”

——-> Teresa: “Dear jim, you are not fat, you are only wide.  People such as yourself have big hearts and girls ADORE people like you.  You can’t even imagine how many girls are not into skinny guys, but prefer huge hairy ogres like you because they feel confidence around them…Like having a bear friend.”

——-> Jim: “for real? wow thank you teresa, tonight i’m going to try my luck on the dance floor. should i wear something to emphasize my man-tits?”

8. The fucktard who writes like shit and thinks it’s actually cool.

Example: Jim: “How are you dear facebook friends?

——-> Fucktard: “LOL LOL I am doi^g  5O wellllllllll Chimiask 23ds$@ And Me Go”ne Bot Be back..”

9. The spammer.

Example: Jim: “I found a complete eyebrow on my pizza, I’m so going to sue pizza hut for it!”

——->   Spammer: “My nigerian friend Mumbata found 40 milion dollar in his garden and needs you to invest only 1 million dollars & help him to bring the money to a safe ground. Then he will split it with you on a ratio of 98% for you, and only 2% for him, because he does it for justice.”

10. The cancer boy.

Example: Jim: “I’m so happy! my grandmother finally died and I’m moving into her house!”

——–> The cancer boy: “I need you to donate money for my surgery that costs 200,000 in order to save my life.. P.S I’m also pissed of from being bold at the age of 10.”

11. The bold person.

Example: Jim: “Did anyone see survivor yesterday? “

———-> Bold person: “NO I DONT HAVE A TV IN MY HOUSE BECAUSE ITS CORRUPTING AND I LOVE TO HEAR COUNTRY MUSIC ON MY RADIO”

———-> Jim: “Grandma, turn the damn caps-lock button off, sheesh, how many times I told you it’s the most annoying  thing on earth?”

12.  The provocative bastard. A person who always write extreme gross things in order to draw attention.

Example: Jim: “I Just got back from the bathroom. Oh boy I had such a huge dump in there. It’s still floating in the water and refuses to go down. Actually, I didn’t believe it came out of my ass so I took a  fork and stabbed it in order to check if it’s an extraterrestrial entity. You know what? I’m going to take a picture of it and open a special fan page.”

It sounds horrible. You are basically lost in chaos of emotions and instincts, and surrounded with a difficult environment that you can’t quite understand what causes it to happen, like heavy rain, earthquakes, and wild animals.

As you can enter to this primitive role more and more,  and you can perceive the reality from the inside of that person, you can understand that your life now in modern days isn’t that different. You are still living without knowing what are you really, as you need to adapt to all kinds of threats, and although you know that you live on planet earth, and you got a structure of words in which you can communicate forms with them , you are still standing hopeless against all those threats that were back then 5000 years ago.

Our life now, in those days has other form, other structure ; religion and gods who ruled the world and explained it , had changed into science , but still can’t supply us an 100% answer to all of our needs, threats, sickness, and answers. And therefor ,science isn’t a reality, but only another form of  the humanity to explain it existence.

Nothing has changed. One form has changed into another, and we are still here, dealing with the same issue as the first persons on earth dealt with – being human.

Don’t trust the written truth. there is no truth or any way to explain ourselves.  The only truth is that there are forms of reality that we live in, and those forms are created by us.

Looking at you problems in life and trying to identify causes, is parallel to a person who is looking mysteriously at a melting Ice cube,  and wondering “from where does the leak comes from ?” ;  There is no hole which where the water drops and falls. So , why is there a leak ? what causes it ? and how can I resolve it ?

Our society teached us  to see the world as a puzzle, not as a whole, and this is how we see ourselves – as a complicated puzzle that needs to be  solved part by part.                                                                                                                                        The truth is that we operate as wholes, exactly like the ice-cube.  And trying to fix an attribute or a part of the whole, will just go wrong ; Imagine to yourself a complexed chemical  formula – If you replace or add one atom,  you get something  else, a different “whole”, but you do not “fix” or change the object itself. You  just get something new.

If you are wondering how you can change you life without becoming something else, you need to first think of yourself as a whole, and not as a mixture of things. Don’t search for excuses as  “If i only had more confidence, more courage, etc..“ , because there isn’t a “hole” in you that needs to be fixed in order for you to become whatever you want to be.    It is YOU – The complete form leaks , and that is what you need to work on – yourself as a whole !

This  is the first key to improve yourself.

For me, its sorrowing to see people who grow older without developing and changing. Most likely that people will try to change or adapt new habits only when a major crisis invades their life, like a disease, bankruptcy, and any other “kick in the ass” that life can give you, when you are not adapting to the consistently changing world around you.  The world is full of stories of people that didn’t adapt and renew theirselves, and life in return teaches them the lesson in a very annoying manner – Like the poor person that became a millionaire, but lost all of his money in just few months, because his mind was still tuned into his old “poor self” .

Your body is smarter than you, and that’s why he changes completely every seven years without asking for your permission, but unfortunately, if you won’t listen to your body and change yourself also – your own body will fail to maintain itself, and your next seven years will be about attempting to restore your health and wealth .

I’m not talking only about changing your health habits as  supposed, but the change of your whole being. There is no point in being childish by acting ignorant towards the changes in life, you will just suffer from consistently fighting with yourself.  Y

Stop and think  how can you adapt to reality better by being different from your “old” you.  ANALIZE – What are the patterns that you live consistently. UPGRADE yourself, your beliefs, your behaviour, your enviroment, your temper. And just keep it as a habit – Change as a way of living well.

The evolution of the fast food industry and processed food has developed fast side by side with the human tendency to be lazy by wanting things to be fast and easy, even if it’s dangerous or bad to our health.

How Can You Start Your Own Successful  Fast food business ?

1. Choose  one or more food integrant.  Lets take ‘chicken’ as an example
2. Order it cheaply from a farm who grows tons of chickens in awful conditions, and then feed them with chemicals in order to make them grow fatter and therefore more profitable to your restaurant\factory.
3. When the chickens arrive to your factory, slaughter them massively and fast with the proper machinery.  Then you can pass the dead chickens to your workers that will cut all of the eatable parts.
4. dissolve those parts with water and chemical substances in order to cut the expanses  and inflate the product –  that will make the chicken parts  look bigger and tastier .
5. in order to trick the consumer and convince him that dissolving the chicken with water isn’t that bad – write on the cover “40% meat !”
6. By now the meat has passed thru many places, hands and machines, so it looks awful and smell even worse.  Then your next step is to add  an overdose of sugars, salt, color and taste artificial flavors to make it eatable.
7. Congratulations ! Now The meat is eatable, but it still look bad so cover it with something like bread crumbs.
8. By now the food should taste and smell like real food, but we all know that the chicken that look so good can be compared to a 90 year old woman that had 1000′s of surgeries in order to make her look like a teenager, and she may look great, but damn, its all rotten inside, and then you have it done – a sick fake joke.
9. Well, you got the well looking pieces of meat, but it isn’t enough. you need to box it and deliver it to the public with a convincing message to the targeted market, usually it will be kids.  SO  Hire some graphic specialist to design the product cover. Tell them to put a cartoon of a happy and shiny chicken that plays with some little cute kids, you may write “mr. Mchicken is in town – Now with more vitamins and more health”.  Don’t gamble on this one, people are stupid enough to believe  that mr. Mchicken hides inside the frozen box, and he is full with vitamins and good moods.
10. The work isn’t done yet. You need to fool the people some more, so add some salad to the portion or write in the box “made with canola oil” or ” 30% LESS SUGAR” or “added vitamins!”.  Remember the Golden words that fool people  : “vitamins” “canola oil” “salad” and “less sugar” …use this words properly and you can even sell Donkeys shit (with vitamins and a nice green salad aside it)
11. Add more tricks and gimmicks  : make mr. mchicken a hero of a comic book , make puppets in his figure, add little sweet surprises to the kids-deal-package, and most important  - create a fun & rhythmic song that will play over and over in tv commercials and restaurants.
12. Just Before you put your mr. mchiken on peoples tables you need to get some confirmation from the health department that proves that your chicken is eatable & healthy by the common standards.  Dont worry, all you need is to hire “food scientist” that will check your chicken and then you will need to hire some lobbyists that know the ‘right’ people .
13. Thats it ! you have created your fast food shitty money making product, now you can publish it, poison the public and make a lot of money from all those lazy & low awareness human beings ..

P.S Don’t forget to donate every year some portion of your fortune to sick & obese kids.  That will make you look good in public and your lobbyist could use it in their convincing public relations campaign.

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When I’m saying “the people around you” i am referring to your ‘social circle’ – your friends, and the people you hang out with, but it can be also your family members and even your wife\husband.

Lets admit it, we usually hang out and live with people like us; with the same status, in the same area, the same age, education, and even with the same personality. That’s because the human tendency is to ‘stick to the same’ and look for the familiar – anything that is out of your reality seem to be wrong somehow.   So if you are at yours 30′s, you have only scholar education and you earn 50,000$ a year , than probably your social circle will have the same lifestyle and qualities as you have ; your friends will live at the same place you live in, they will earn as much as you earn, and their social status or every other “status” that life can grant, will be closely to yours.

There is a price to this social-circle belonging, and the price is that those who are the same as you, will desire to keep you at the same level, and that means that you can be above them, because than you wont belong to the circle.

If you want to “upgrade” your life- earn more, be more, and improve your status, the very first thing you must do is  TO LEAVE your social circle, because those people wont help you BE more. They will hit you with a stick on your head, get jealous, envy, mad, and even will want to sabotage your desire of achieving your Goals and dreams. They will act to make you feel bad, because when a you feel bad you can’t act with energy, the “mental fuel” you need.. You will feel sad, tired, and dependent on others.

If you can’t believe me you can go test it by yourself. go to your friends and tell them about your dreams of becoming more than you are now, and tell them also that you are actually taking steps to achieve them and leave on to a better life.  Now watch their response, and the nonverbal cues. you will be surprised.

Your social-circle people are not bad.  They just have a natural unconscious tendency to oppress in order to CONTROL. Parents do this all the time, lovers  do this to each other in every-time.  Oppression is the primitive way of controlling people, and if you will become aware of the people who try to oppress you, you just found the half-way to freedom.

CONCLUSION : Don’t let anyone oppress you or your wishes in life. We often may feel bad because of all the oppression that we feel in our daily life when our family oppress us, our friends, our boss at work, the newspapers that floods you with all the bad things that are going on, and so… AND REMEMBER : If you want to change your life – First change your oppressing environment.

You buy the perfume and put it on daily basis – in the morning before you go to work, after you shower, and in the evening when you go out and socialize or just want to feel more fresh & clean.

After a while, lets say two weeks, something weird happen – you can’t smell your perfume anymore! others can smell it coming out of your skin, but you just can’t.. And if you can smell something, it’s nothing like the smell that it has in first time you smelled it.

You may wonder – Maybe my nose is blocked ? Or perhaps i need a stronger perfume ? and maybe it’s the perfume itself ? it must be ‘broken’ if i can’t smell it..

Leave the perfume aside. It’s not the issue, because the effect has nothing to do with your nose or the perfume.  The real fallacy Is the ‘Adaption’ process that happen when we get use to something;  And when something that is first new to us becomes familiar, your brain “packs” it into a generalized object and that’s how your mind can’t sense its presence anymore although its still there.  That’s why all the “usual” things in your life may lose their value , and I’m not talking about perfumes only; It can be your workplace, your favorite food, and even your wife.. the essence seem to vanish from every new experience you have, and your life can be quite depressing if you won’t CHANGE it once in a while.

Why does it happen ?

Don’t worry, There is a logical explanation and the reason that your brain is doing this “packing” is because it wants to protect you from being overloaded with tons of information, emotions, sensual feelings and amusement.  Can you imagine what would happen if everything usual will seem to be New and exciting ?? you will be overwhelmed you wont be able to do nothing . Your brain must pack all of your experiences in the world in order to deal with them!

Ok. Much Understood, so what can i do about it ?

Imagine yourself that you are watching a movie; you see the hero acting in the story, and while you act as the observer and can notice the obvious- the hero can’t, because he is INSIDE the story.  You are sitting there watching all those behaviours of the actors, catch up with what is going on, but you can’t understand how those little fellows there can’t notice the obvious. You may even think to yourself things like : “How the hell jon didn’t figure yet that his son is gay ? “.

When you can’t smell your own scent, you can’t judge yourself objectively.

Your behaviours, your looks,  and all of your being become your “dead spot”. You can’t see them- they are like a ghost like this perfume that you can’t smell anymore, So the BEST thing you can do about it is to OUTSOURCE the judgemental process to something external – a stranger, like a coach who can “smell” your whole being without those “packages” and tell you honestly Who are you now.

You may not agree with the last statement and you may think that people know their self’s well, But how many times did you stare at people around you –  criticized them for their behaviours and looks, and wondered how they can’t see and figure what is wrong with them ? (p.s. people think it it about you as well)

If you want to develop yourself you must hire an external coach who doesn’t know you. That’s the only way you can get REAL criticism and REAL information about yourself.

It was getting late and i rushed up to my bus, number 940, And then something weird happened – I saw a person whom i didn’t see in about ten years. It wasn’t just an ordinary person… It was one of my Military friends.

I dont’ know what do you feel about friends or just known people you meet after a long time you didn’t see them. You might feel a bit of rush in your blood stream, and you might even be surprised to see the changes that has happened in the persons face and body.  BUT this is nothing like meeting an military friend, this is different, because people who fought with you side by side and were your “human shield” against death, Are nothing like any other regular person you know..

I froze. He was the same as the last time i saw him ten years before.. He didn’t notice me. He was in a sit reading a paper. And the natural thing for those situations is to jump and hug the man as if you just saw your mother after a long time of absence… And i didn’t….I just kept on walking…far..into the end of the bus..feeling those mixed emotions..

I had two hours of deep thinking, and i could decide to get up, go to his sit and talk to him.. But when the bus has arrived into the station, i freezd again, and let him disappear again, into the ‘black hole’ of my memories.

I can’t explain why i didn’t approach him. Maybe im different now, maybe is because i hate the army.. and maybe it’s just because a memories from the ‘black hole’ should stay there.

On The next day i felt bad about the conversation. actually i felt a kind of bitterness and anger when i did recall some parts of the conversation i had on the last day.  I felt like my mind has been raped,  an awful feeling, but why did i feel like this ? i had a deep & interesting conversation, and i enjoyed the talk.

Then i remembered the last time i felt this feeling;  The situation was the same – long intimate deep talk,  great bond, but on the day after – puff ! it all disappeared, and i felt awful.

Finally i understood the reason i felt like this, The reason was pretty simple : I have revealed too much personal-information in a short time period, to a complete stranger.

It may sound stupid, but i believe that our identity has some kind of a form, even invisible that contain all of our mental structures, memories, fears, beliefs, secrets, and even our suppressed side..the one we even deny it to our-self.

There is a use to this form, it protects us from being used by other people, and this is why people puts on all those kinds of  ’false-masks’ in their daily life when dealing with people and tend to behave in a “cold” nor official manner.  It’s protection, a shield that prevents the “hacking” of your soul. You can’t really feel intimacy with everyone for the same reason you can’t go naked around people you don’t know.

I have learned my lesson – Never allow to  any kind of relationship develop so fast. There is a logical order to everything in the world, and apparently even to our bonding with people.  The pathway to ones soul is longer the we can even imagine, no shortcuts here.